Sabtu, 15 November 2014

Although Instant Face Behold your son



Take a look at your son for a moment. Stare at her face. You are no hell fire ignited Relax face until the skin blisters? Remember the moment when you feel worried to see them fight with his brother. Can anyone imagine he was fighting with you before the Court of Allah Ta'ala for failing to instill in him monotheism? There are definitely days when there was no option to go back. We are when it depreciated each other in heaven or fighting each other?

So, love your son forever! Not only for his life in the world. Love them wholeheartedly to a time when there is little else that can help us please except the help of Allah Ta'ala. Love them with the hope that when the world is not just together, more than it can gather together in heaven. Love them while trying to deliver them achieve greatness, not just for his career in the moment. Moreover for glory in a much longer period. The endless future.

Some of death is real separation; parted and never again come together in a loving intimacy. Parents and children only met before the Court of Allah Ta'ala, mutual become enemies of each other, each other down. Children who fell into the hell did not want to accept him tercampakkan so demanding responsibilities of parents who have neglected his duty to teach religion

It would be a great loss in the day when the child and the parents sue each other before the Court of Allah Ta'ala.

This is the day when we can not defend lawyers, and lawyers can not defend themselves. So what we have prepared to deliver the children to return home afterlife? And this world is his field ...

Some of death was instantaneous separation; very long time that we perceive in the world, but very short for the dead. They split up to subsequently recovered by Allah Jalla wa 'Ala. Depth charity they may not be comparable. But Allah Ta'ala susulkan each of them to the charity higher.

Allah the Exalted says: "And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in faith, we connect them with their children and grandchildren, and we not detract in the slightest from the reward of their deeds. Every human being is bound by what he did. "(QS. Ath-Thuur, 52: 21). [Source: YMN]

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Caution, Do not Love Daydreaming, this result


Daydreaming is what usually happens when the center is not excited. Daydreaming can be done anywhere and anytime. We already know that daydreaming is a waste of time. But apparently daydreaming also has other effects, you know ... Here are the things that can result from too frequent daydreaming:

Make Us Lazy
If tngah daydream daydreaming or negative direction, we would feel lazy to do anything. Thus the question arises why sometimes we can be lazy? One is because most dreamy.

loss of concentration

People who are daydreaming, when no one else nerbicara next to him as if not hearing anything. It also can make to lose concentration. When people besides us was talking to us, so we can not capture information that can be as dreamy.

Not Acting But Most Daydreaming
If we daydream usually certainly produce some new ideas or solutions. But sometimes we do not do that solution, instead we are constantly daydreaming. And forget what should be done with the results of earlier reverie.

Empty mind
Be careful, the proverb says "do not daydream later might kesambet". Evidently there is some news on television is possessed event because his mind is empty. So do not let your mind blank.

can Stress
Be careful when excess daydream, daydreaming can also lead to stress and tired brain to think. Daydreaming is fine, as long as no frequency up to the brain and our mind becomes stressed.

Well, it turns out a lot to lose if we continue daydreaming. Instead of daydreaming, the better we concern ourselves with the more important. Rather than letting our minds it would empty pleasure if we use for dhikr remembrance of Allah. So, do not be too often daydream yes. [Source: Gen22net]

4 Process Stages of Love Qur'an



Reading the Quran is supposed to be our daily activities. But alas, sometimes because of a variety of busyness, Quran recitations often not fulfilled. In fact, one of our devotion to the Quran is to read it.

Well, to learn to "love" the Quran, we would need four tahapah below.

1.IN FORCED


Force yourself to recitations, love or hate, mild or severe.

2. HABITS


Some form of coercion will turn into a 'habit'.

We would feel weird if not recitations.

Continue!

 3. NEEDS


Habit that continues in doing will change to 'need'.

At this stage already started to grow the seeds of love Qur'an.

Start reading the translation and commentary ..

 4. PLEASURE


At this stage of the Qur'an has become addictive. Read and study it is 'pleasure'.

While the split will make yourself uneasy.

What we need to do is 'constancy' and continue to make the Qur'an as a friend. [Source: One Day One Juz]

Sadness Will Not Be Lasting


Every human being must have experienced grief. Because desire is not fulfilled, not achieving a goal, cut pocket money, and others. Yes, it is only natural they are so sad. Sad okay. But do not overdo it okay. Because nothing is eternal sorrow. Smile friends. Keep the spirit.

Always spinning wheel of life sometimes feels happy, sad moan and tear. But taukah you, there is one who is always looking at you gentle know which is best for you. He gives what you need not what you want.

All that was also due to his will, all of which goes according to His plan. His knowledge encompasses everything and you might not reach it so why are you anxious for something that is not yet sure what happened. Is not His promise that for sure? He is Allah the All-Knowing.

There He is the Giver, and He gives you everything that you pray to Him. And if you count the favors of Allah, you will not be able to count them, then be thankful.

Life goes on though sometimes heart do not want, the beloved right away that didamba the lost, then you draw near to Him with Him the Eternal.

Servant is fragile in steps, sometimes not loyal to him. But still hanging hope and asamu Him Him the Almighty, you're not the disappointed.

This is a test from Him, and He is not the test servant exceeds his ability. But is not it really tested tuk man to know which are the most devoted to him, then keep istiqomah.

There are many other brethren much more pain and suffering, there is always magic behind the disaster there is always the ease after hardship, all certainly beautiful in its time. So be patient.

"So smile, O friend, all that happens will expire and return to Him."

LOVE IN SILENCE

Duhai girl, would you tell me how to love with the beautiful?
Would I whisper how to love with serene.
So listen ..
Girl, When I fall in love ..
I would not say ..
I would not say ..
But I would just keep quiet ..
When I love, I never stated.
I will not carve ..
All I did was silent ..

I know, love is not terperih fitrah..sebuah grace ..
Because love is life. Because it is a light flavor. I know, life without love, is like living in total darkness .. But .. When the flavor was greeted, then faced with graceful. Because taste is like shackles rainbow, with so many colors. Love sometimes mbuatmu happy, but not infrequently mbuatmu suffer. Love sometimes sweet as sugar, but also able to provide a very bitter bitter. Love is a trap sense .. Once you're wrong applies, then you will be stuck in a long time in the circle of suffering.

So girls, So you can get out of the shackles. And is able through it with a graceful .. So mencintailah in silence. In silence .. You need not run, do not need you to avoid. But also, do not you sikapi with excessive. Do you Umbar Penting Mulan Jameela. Do you spill any sukamu ..

Try to stop and Think calmly .. We believe destiny is not it? We know very clearly ... He, God has arranged everything so precisely? So, what are you worried about? Let God who set it up, and rest assured in his hand all will be fine ..

Try to think about ... He's what you love, not necessarily or probably will never be yours .. Him you worship, do you remember the time of day and are you weeping when the night, Will he who has God ordained to you?

Girl, we do not know and will never know .. Until the time comes .. So, I remind you, do not you have a sense of shame if you Umbar smua ... But it turns out later it was not you that he chose to accompany his life? Girl, Because our love is so great for in Umbar .. So precious to in putting out .. Once sacred to in spill ..

And realize the girl, we women are shy nature, and you're beautiful because of the nature malumu .. So, would you still look attractive if the shame that has been in nafikan? Shall you look bestari if it had been you uncover the shame .. Duhai girl, make embarrassment as selendangmu .. So captive thyself in the faith .. In the bars of the cage .. Well .. Loyalty loyalty to him who has God write your name and the name in the Lawh Mahfuz .. Long before the earth and the sky created ..

Then love dlm silence. So that if it is not he who is destined for you, then God is enough and you who know all Penting Mulan Jameela .. For purity is maintained .. To keanggunanmu remains biased ..

So, I tell you, you loose Take control hatimu..Jangan. Ignore all that temptation toward you .. Love is not for you to destroy, not to destroy you .. But love just need you to control, just enough you navigate ..

Girl ... that you need is time, patience and trust ..
Then, hold the control of the heart, His Lalu..Arahkan pd .. And love in silence .. In silence .. It is much more beautiful ..

Much more sacred
Does she rib?

Women created from tulangrusuk man ..
? Not from his head to be a boss ..
? Instead of feet to be subordinate ..

"But of ribs, close to the heart, guarded and protected .."

Women That Need:
? Men are expressly not hard ..? The man who protects not overprotective ..
? The man who is not a possessive lover ..
? The man in charge is not a braggart ..
? Abusive man works not handily beat ..

"Good man, the road lead you in the world ..
To bersama2 looking Bekal In Hereafter, Jalan Ke "PARADISE ..

"Not conspired menumpukdosa bersama2 Jalan" HELL ".."

Yes, Bone Ribs ...
Bones that protect the "Heart", The liver is the most sensitive in man, Heart is a symbol of love, When the ribs awake then woke up and then woke up and love hearts

Hearts just one, not like that could be donated kidney, liver not!

Women's hearts just one, for man who can protect and provide comfort to him.

"Doing Okay ladies, because they are created from a rib, and indeed the most crooked rib is the most atas.Maka sikapilah women well." (Reported by al-Bukhari Kitab an-Nikah No. 5186)

? May the pair Dapet Like Sehati And Faithful To Mati..Aamiin

Sorry if there are mistakes in transcription

Jumat, 14 November 2014

Muhasabah, When the Seller and the Buyer Equally Liar

seller are Lying

     One day a mother shopping in a supermarket. After picking the goods and put into the shopping cart, the mother headed to the cashier to pay for all items to be purchased. All well and fine until the moment he saw the price on a computer that was different from the price listed on the shelf. Prices in the computer more expensive than existing bandrol rek goods. The ibupun protest. But according to the checkout, the price of goods valid is that of a computer. The ibupun disappointed because they feel cheated. I do not know, whether in this case the seller mistake for failing to adjust the price on the shelf and on the computer. Or did they deliberately?

    Another lie that may be made by the seller is by manipulating the scales or dose. Some sellers are dishonest, take more advantage to deceive buyers. Dishonest sellers unusual modify their scales in order to steal the weight of purchase. It is also common at the pump. Meter gas station they be modified in order to steal, so what buyers paid more than they should.

   Some traders lied to cover up the ugliness of goods by saying nice goods. Even some traders mix between poor quality goods with good as the fruit merchant hamlet sweet fruit mix with the sour. The buyer then disappointed when it turned out the goods they buy are not in accordance with their basic expectations.

   While other traders deceive buyers by saying that the prospective buyer was offering price of new capital by saying, "Well ghak be Mr. / Mrs. New price that much of my capital "even though the capital is far below the price ditawarka. The goal is that the buyer raise the offer price.

   I quite respect to a super market which included the announcement of quite large, which gives assurance that appropriate price between the shelves in the computer. Even the super market gives promise, if the price listed on the computer is more expensive than the price listed on the shelf, then the product will be free. I do not know. I also never expected them careless and eliminate the goods to me.

Buyers who Lying

   The desire to get the price of the goods as cheaply as possible, reasonable owned by the buyer. Usually the buyer will ask the price of the goods and then give the offer price to the seller. B ila in the final process of negotiating an agreement price, then the buyer to continue with the transaction.

   Unfortunately, there are also buyers who lied. As if, kosher-halal just lied to profit from the difference between the price of the goods. Usually to suppress the price, the buyer will say to the seller, "Oh really expensive Ma'am shirt? I had been in the previous store can price 22 thousand per fruit. "Of course this model lies buyers forced seller menurunkaan price again to the level that still remain profitable. Why should lie to get benefits even may not amount to much.

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   Large and powerful as anything you desire to make a profit, not to lie still avoid. The advantage that we get from lying, not comparable to the collapse of ethics and morals we as humans.

  The Quran calls them cheated in trade or sale of as Al-Muthaffifiin, ie they are the ones who received the dose if they ask for plus and if they weigh or measure them reduce.

  Woe to those who cheat, (ie) those who received a dose of when they were filled with others, and when they measure or weigh for others, they reduce.
(QS. Al-Muthaffifin: 1-3)
  What about you, who works as a lecturer or teacher to restrict the rights of students or students to gain knowledge? What you are working as an employee which reduces the working time of a predetermined?

Glory be to God. Wallahualam Bishawab

Secret Behind Prayer 1/3 Last Night


     Tahajjud prayer (qiyamul Lail) is a Sunnah of worship that has a lot of wisdom (that already I feel the benefits). Legal Tahajjud prayer is Sunnah muakkad. But the Prophet always a good evening prayers in a state of calm and quiet not like the way or war. Sangking his solemn prayers so that both feet blisters. Seriousness Muhammad also attended by the friends and the tabi'in even for Tahajjud prayer meant that worship is not just worship nafilah but as will be required for their worship.

Many secrets and benefits contained in Tahajjud prayer worship both in this world and in the hereafter. Among fadhilah Tahajjud prayer is as follows:

1. Fadhilah Tahajjud prayer in the world

  • God save themselves from temptation
  • God made the people's faces shine
  • God made the man talks useful and beneficial
  • God made people become wiser.
  • Favored by people who are pious


2. Fadhilah tahjjud prayer in the Hereafter
  •   At facilitates reckoning
  • When walking on the bridge Shirot like lightning
  • Book given to God accepted by the right hand
  • Collected by the people who clean his face.



     Begitu besarnya manfaat sholat tahajjud bagi kita, dengan mendirikan sholat tahajjud secara khusuk dan istiqomah dapat membuat terkabulnya do'a. Hal ini adalah janji Allah sebagaimana yang disabdahkan oleh nabi:

" Tuhan kita turun pada setiap malam ke langit dunia, ketika tersisa sepertiga malam terakhir Dia berfirman "siapa yang berdoa kepada-Ku maka aku kabulkan doanya, Siapa yang memohon kepada-Ku aku akan memberinya dan siapa yang memohon ampunan kepada-Ku maka aku akan mengampuninya. (HR. Bukhori dan Muslim)


     Case that causes entrainment and facilitate prayer tahjjud:
Sometimes in performing ritual prayers we feel "cedar arasan" aka lazy either obligatory daily prayers and sunnah prayers. The Case Tahajjud prayer to make of that entrainment is

  1. Concerned about the problems of the world and forget the hereafter. the point is that we are too concerned about the affairs of the world such as work, family, debt, and so on and forget the obligations we do worship to God.
  2.   Many talk about the world that is not useful permasalaha like gossiping or talking about the ugliness of others.
  3.   Too tired and weary bodies at a time when daylight.
  4.   Stomach in the state of satiety.


While it can be easier for us to do is pray Tahajjud

  • Frequent updating ablution although not canceled.
  • Reproduce chant and prayer beads before sunset.
  • Multiply worship between Maghrib and Isha time 'such as reading the Qur'an and dhikr.
  • Not talk between Maghrib and Isha time 'causing to forget the Hereafter.



Medical benefits or treatment
Our body will suck the oxygen in Earth's atmosphere at about 3 am until sunrise and movement of muscles in our body will refresh and facilitate the flow in the body. Let us examine the movement of muscles when we perform the prayer movement.

First of all we malakukan takbirotul ihrom ie upright movement then raised his hands and bertakbir and meletakkkan hands on the chest, medically this movement will loosen the chest cavity so that the lungs will feel airy and move the muscles in both hands

Ruku movement with the body bent forward and both hands above the head knees and back flat. This movement will move the vertebra, cervical vertebrae, pelvis and leg bones.

Prostration movement: the whole weight we concentrated fully on muscles of both hands, legs, chest, abdomen, back, and neck. If we were prostrate all the muscle part moves.

Movement sitting between the two prostrations and tahiyat: heel muscles, groin, groin, fingers toes, part moves. And the last is a movement that will move greeting muscles of the neck and nape us.

Similarly, the amount of benefits that can be learned from Tahajjud prayer, when the blood circulation in the body smoothly certainly will nourish our bodies. As the saying goes "in a healthy body there is a healthy soul".


  (taken from various sources)

Minggu, 09 November 2014

BINDING HEART CHILDREN

Tips For Parents

  1. One of the tasks of parenting is to create a powerful emotional bond between parents with children familiar with the term emotional bonding
  2. The inner emotional ties or influence for the child to live a lifetime difficult masa2 though no parent in the
  3. Not always the parent accompanying the child's life. Because parents are not Rexona faithful at all times. Children should grow independently with potential. Emotional bonding is a reminder
  4. There are at least a few times in the child's life where he experienced a crisis: pre-school, pre-puberty, puberty, pre-marital and marriage
  5. In times tersebutlah he needed guidance and direction. So even if there is no parent in hand, nasehat2 and exemplary parents kept for no bonding
  6. This is the one that is experienced by young Joseph is currently fascinated with the beauty Zulaikha and invited to do nasty. He has a passion
  7. Desire almost plunge if God does not give the 'sign'. Such as that contained in the letter of Joseph: 24. Please read
  8. 'Omen' that was meant advice tiba2 father who appears when she was almost deceived by his lust. It says Ibn Kathir
  9. Imagine that! Prophet Yusuf who are far apart by his father, kept away from the persuasion of the devil. It does not commit adultery. Tersebab bonding
  10. It is also distinguished dharapkan of our children. Far apart but keep the honor of the family as a wonderful counsel parents who are embedded in the soul
  11. When the crisis struck soul, did not go anywhere looking for a solution. Sure there are parents who are ready to help find a way out. believe fully
  12. A woman who is in conflict with her husband, will vent to his father. Not to another man. Households saved. Because no father bonding
  13. Children who do not have a father and mother bonding then disbelief with his parents. More bad even hear his words. This is called the parent distrust
  14. How to create emotional bonding with the child? Early age should not be ignored. Starting from the baby in the womb. Father-mother involved together in parenting
  15. When the baby in the womb, the father-mother made her voice more audible reply. Get her talking while rubbing the stomach mother
  16.  When a child is born, the child in the arms of welcome that is warm. Confronted face to face him. so slowly scanned into memory
  17. Age 0-2 years is the binding phase. Here is the phase in which the father-mother should be the main actor in parenting. Not the others
  18. In this phase of God commanded her to give him the milk. Which not only milk, but also caress and touch the child required
  19. How many mothers who entrusts his mother's milk in the bottle. Not giving him directly from the nipples. So children healthy body but his soul is empty
  20. This phase is also a father should be more involved parenting. Take a tuk change diapers, carrying a child with a story
  21. In the 0-2 years age do not rush to introduce children to the media though it was nice. Therefore, bonding yet fully bound
  22. If you want to teach children about the Quran, not from a CD or cassette. It would be beautiful if her parents who speak out at once is not fluent. In order to create bonding
  23. Although there are other caregivers, their role is only to help. Not the central figure. So that the bonding that exists not to them but to her parents
  24. Remove all energy: voice, body language, and facial expressions so powerful recorded in the memory of the child. This is what the basis for the emergence of bonding
  25. What if the child is past the age of 2 years while we are late making efforts bonding? Listen to continue yes.
  26. If the child is past the age of 2 years, can we create bonding with him? Still very able. As long as we can read a golden moment
  27. Golden moment this is a situation where a child benar2 need our presence. Could accidentally or we also engineering
  28. Golden moment that dmaksud there are two: the moment when the child is upset and child performance achievements. Attend in earnest in two this time
  29. When your child is upset, he needs rest the soul. Need some hugging and listen confidante. Be there soon. Do not let other people who take
  30. Not sensitivity of the parent when the child is sad even create freehand bonding increasingly fragile. Declining confidence. Children ran to the other figure
  31. And the idea of a child when the performance achievements: read poetry in school, take report cards, dancing, and the like. It is offering to parents of their
  32. When performance achievement, which children need is the applause and appreciation of his parents. If the parent is not present, corrupted the child trust
  33. The presence of parents in their activities is the recognition of the existence of the child. Parents who is smart, will force yourself tuk present. In order to create emotional bonding
  34. Hopefully we can be a parent who is able to intertwine our children invitation emotional bonding. In order for children terdampingi forever even though we are not.
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Rabu, 05 November 2014

Pria baik Baik Untuk Wanita Baik Baik

Andai anda tau..
Bahwa pria baik baik untuk wanita baik baik
Tahukah engkau, bahwa pria sesungguhnya jauh lebih sering "menangis" namun mereka menyembunyikan tangisannya di dalam kekuatan akalnya
Itulah mengapa Alloh Swt menyebutkan pada pria terdapat 2 kali akal dari seorang wanita
Dan itulah sebabnya mengapa tiada yang kau lihat dari seorang pria melainkan hanya ketegarannya
Pria "menangis" karna tanggung jawabnya di hadapan Alloh Swt
Ia menjadi tonggak penyangga rumah tangga
Menjadi pengawal bagi ibu, spdara perempuan,, istri dan anak anaknya
Maka tangisnya tak pernah nampak di bening matanya
Tangisan pria adalah keringat yang bercucuran demi menafkahi keluarga
Tak bisa kau lihat tangisnya pada keluh kesah di lisannya
Pria "menangis" dalam letih lelehnya dalam menjaga keluarganya dari kelaparan
Tak dapat kau dengar tangisnya pada omelan omelan di bibinya
Pria "menangis" dalam tegak teguhnya dalam melindungi keluarganya dari terik matahari deras hujan dan dinginnya angin malam
Tak nampak tangisnya pada peristiwa peristiwa kecil dan sepele
Pria "menangis" dalam kemarahannya jika kehormatan diri dan keluarganya di gugat
Pria "menangis" dengan sigap bangunnya di kegelapan dini hari
Pria "menangis" dengan bercucuran peluhnya dalam menjemput rizqi
pria "menangis" dengan menjaga dan melindungi orang tua, anak dan istri
Pria "meenangis" dengan tenaga dan darahnya nenjadi garda bagi agamanya
Namun.......
Priapun sungguh-sungguh menangis dengan air matanya, di kesendiriannya menyadari tanggung jawabnya yang besar di hadapan Alloh Swt
Pandanglah ayah...
Pandanglah suami...
Pandanglah kakak...
Sesungguhnya syurga Alloh Swt, di dalam keridho'an mereka
SELAMAT MENJEMPUT RIZQI HARI INI

Senin, 03 November 2014

MENIKAH ADALAH IBADAH


Bukan sekedar pesta yang riuh oleh kerabat, relasi penting ,bukan ajang pamer tamu kehormatan, panggung megah, dekorasi wah atau pesta yang meriah..

Menikah...
Bukan sekadar membentuk tim kerja untuk menghasilkan uang untuk membeli segala jenis harta yang melimpah..
Bukan sekedar sarana belajar memasak, menjahit bagi istri dan sarana belajar membetulkan peralatan listrik bagi suami..

Menikah...
Bukan sekedar menyamakan hobi dan kegemaran sehingga sampai ada adagium humor: Kalau dua-duanya doyan musik, berarti ada gejala bisa langgeng..
Kalau sama-sama suka seafood berarti masa depan cerah...
(That simple ?!

Menikah bukan sekedar itu…

Menikah berbeda dengan perumpamaan sepasang sandal, yang hanya punya aspek kiri dan kanan..

Menikah adalah penyatuan dua manusia.. pria dan wanita.
Dari anatomi saja sudah tidak sebangun, apalagi urusan jiwa dan hatinya...

So,
Menikah adalah ...
Menyatukan dua isi kepala, dua ide, dua impian menjadi sesuatu yang besar - Bermakna - tak hanya untuk kita,pasangan dan keluarga namun juga untuk orang lain di sekitar.

Menikah adalah...
Memutuskan berlabuh di satu pantai, ketika ratusan kapal pesiar gemerlap memanggil-manggil...

Menikah adalah..
Cara meraih sempurnanya agama, hingga menikah dikatakan sempurna menjalani setengah dien..

Menikah adalah...
Keberanian untuk menerima segala kelebihan dan kekurangan pasangan. Memupuk toleransi tingkat tinggi dan memaklumi pasangan apa adanya.

Menikah membutuhkan kelapangan hati untuk melebur kata ‘aku’ dan ‘kamu’ menjadi ‘kita’..

Menikah adalah..
Proses pendewasaan seseorang untuk lebih berani mengambil sikap dan memutuskan bahkan untuk urusan terkecil sekalipun.
Kerjasama hebat untuk bergerak, bersinergi untuk mendapatkan tiket surgaNya.

Menikah adalah..
Universitas kehidupan dimana cobaan materi, hati, iman adalah ujiannya.

Menikah adalah..
Belajar memaafkan dan belajar berkata “baiklah, itu salahku, akan kucoba memperbaikinya” .
Belajar berkomunikasi dua arah, dimana kita tidak berbicara :
” Kamu harus mengerti keinginanku!’, namun harus berani bicara “aku memahami kamu, aku memahami apa yang kamu mau dan cita2kan, mari bersama membangunnya”

Menikah ..
Mengajari kita begitu banyak tentang hidup, tentang bagaimana mencintai Allah dengan sempurna melalui kecintaan kita pada pasangan...

Semoga setiap kita meraih pernikahan berkah ..Aamiin.


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Minggu, 02 November 2014

What Price Our Children

How much for your son ??????????????????? Confused definitely ...

Because the value of the child can not be measured by material, priceless ..!

But is it true that the child is priceless?

Sometimes or often a child may be worth very low in the eyes of the parents ..

Sometimes he's lower than a crystal urn.
When the jar was broken accidentally, then anger and then solve the child's feelings, debasing children ....
urn is more valuable when it ..!

Sometimes he is of lesser value than a bowl or plate ..
Which if broken, the sound then rising to solve the child's heart ..




Or lower than a bowl of vegetable shed, because his hands trying to help mom in the kitchen.

Bulging eyes feel more worthy despite having shed tears of the child ...!

Or lower than a new car if scratched, then the stroke is considered more dangerous than a scar on the child's heart ...

Sometimes children jg lower in value than facebook or ball game ....

so that more time and seriousness spent on facebook and watching the ball instead of listening to his stories at school ..

Sometimes children of lesser value than the phone ..

"not be later broken ... !!!!!!!!!!"
HP broken greater concern than the fears of damage to the child's feelings.

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What is the value of a child for us ????????

Is as far as we refrain sincerity to not damage the heart ....

Is the extent of our abilities put him far above the price of inanimate objects that we have ...
It was not going to help us in Yaumil end ..!

While the children are our investment before God.

He that will extend the life of our historically with prayer and charity Salih we teach and he did it ..

🌿Ya God ... if there is ugliness our morals when raised ...
please remove them from our anak2 memories ...
jejak2 remove evils of hands, eyes or mouth us.

We only care, you actually will take titipanMu.