BINDING HEART CHILDREN

Tips For Parents

1. One of the tasks of parenting is to create a powerful emotional bond between parents with children familiar with the term emotional bonding
2. The inner emotional ties or influence for the child to live a lifetime difficult masa2 though no parent in the
3. Not always the parent accompanying the child's life. Because parents are not Rexona faithful at all times. Children should grow independently with potential. Emotional bonding is a reminder
4. There are at least a few times in the child's life where he experienced a crisis: pre-school, pre-puberty, puberty, pre-marital and marriage
5. In times tersebutlah he needed guidance and direction. So even if there is no parent in hand, nasehat2 and exemplary parents kept for no bonding
6. This is the one that is experienced by young Joseph is currently fascinated with the beauty Zulaikha and invited to do nasty. He has a passion
7. Desire almost plunge if God does not give the 'sign'. Such as that contained in the letter of Joseph: 24. Please read
8. 'Omen' that was meant advice tiba2 father who appears when she was almost deceived by his lust. It says Ibn Kathir
9. Imagine that! Prophet Yusuf who are far apart by his father, kept away from the persuasion of the devil. It does not commit adultery. Tersebab bonding
10. It is also distinguished dharapkan of our children. Far apart but keep the honor of the family as a wonderful counsel parents who are embedded in the soul
11. When the crisis struck soul, did not go anywhere looking for a solution. Sure there are parents who are ready to help find a way out. believe fully
12. A woman who is in conflict with her husband, will vent to his father. Not to another man. Households saved. Because no father bonding
13. Children who do not have a father and mother bonding then disbelief with his parents. More bad even hear his words. This is called the parent distrust
14. How to create emotional bonding with the child? Early age should not be ignored. Starting from the baby in the womb. Father-mother involved together in parenting
15. When the baby in the womb, the father-mother made her voice more audible reply. Get her talking while rubbing the stomach mother
16.  When a child is born, the child in the arms of welcome that is warm. Confronted face to face him. so slowly scanned into memory
17. Age 0-2 years is the binding phase. Here is the phase in which the father-mother should be the main actor in parenting. Not the others
18. In this phase of God commanded her to give him the milk. Which not only milk, but also caress and touch the child required
19. How many mothers who entrusts his mother's milk in the bottle. Not giving him directly from the nipples. So children healthy body but his soul is empty
20. This phase is also a father should be more involved parenting. Take a tuk change diapers, carrying a child with a story
21. In the 0-2 years age do not rush to introduce children to the media though it was nice. Therefore, bonding yet fully bound
22. If you want to teach children about the Quran, not from a CD or cassette. It would be beautiful if her parents who speak out at once is not fluent. In order to create bonding
23. Although there are other caregivers, their role is only to help. Not the central figure. So that the bonding that exists not to them but to her parents
24. Remove all energy: voice, body language, and facial expressions so powerful recorded in the memory of the child. This is what the basis for the emergence of bonding
25. What if the child is past the age of 2 years while we are late making efforts bonding? Listen to continue yes.
26. If the child is past the age of 2 years, can we create bonding with him? Still very able. As long as we can read a golden moment
27. Golden moment this is a situation where a child benar2 need our presence. Could accidentally or we also engineering
28. Golden moment that dmaksud there are two: the moment when the child is upset and child performance achievements. Attend in earnest in two this time
29. When your child is upset, he needs rest the soul. Need some hugging and listen confidante. Be there soon. Do not let other people who take
30. Not sensitivity of the parent when the child is sad even create freehand bonding increasingly fragile. Declining confidence. Children ran to the other figure
31. And the idea of a child when the performance achievements: read poetry in school, take report cards, dancing, and the like. It is offering to parents of their
32. When performance achievement, which children need is the applause and appreciation of his parents. If the parent is not present, corrupted the child trust
33. The presence of parents in their activities is the recognition of the existence of the child. Parents who is smart, will force yourself tuk present. In order to create emotional bonding
34. Hopefully we can be a parent who is able to intertwine our children invitation emotional bonding. In order for children terdampingi forever even though we are not.

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